She said something in our session that stopped me.

"I don't even know what the next step is."

She wasn't lost. She had already made the decision. She knew something had to change. She just didn't know where to start.

That's the hardest part. Not the knowing. What to do with what you know.

In this post I share two practical tools for questioning the thought that's been running your relationships — and what to do with your answer.